Welcome to True Gentleman, aka, Gents’ Ways. A hub of gentlemanly guides and tips on effecting positive change in society through etiquette and refined manners.


Chims Clements is a Graphic Designer escapee who is originally from Africa. After 16 years of designing books and media materials, and working for corporations, he’s found his passion to talk about a subject he thinks needs attention – The Gentleman.

Chims is not new in the writing world as he is the co-author of The Conducts of Life blog.

He hopes to make a positive change in the lives of men by sharing his experiences gathered from the lives of elderly Gentlemen, especially his father.


As a young website that is just getting off, we have mapped out quality articles that would always be a go-to hub for men like you seeking inspiration, motivation, and encouragement to navigate the canyons of life with grace and chivalry.

Today’s world is fast-paced with our lives immersed in technology which makes us unwittingly do away with the refinement of Gentlemen.

It becomes imperative to preserve the gentlemanly culture that shapes our interactions and relationships – either in the family, workplace, the street, or with a circle of friends.

I have been a fan of gentlemanly behaviours since childhood as I had a father who was a practical Gentleman.

My father, Clement, of blessed memory was a practical Gentleman by nature whose conduct in society was exemplary and admired by all and sundry.

He never wore a suit…in fact his suits I knew were in their garment bags, untouched throughout my childhood, but then he ticked off every gentlemanly quality and finish of manners.

He was a sharp contrast between what is obtainable at that time and today.

My experience with him and the gentlemanly qualities I imbibed birthed Gents’ Ways, so I can talk about how being a Gentleman can sustain relationships, love, and society while doing away with misconceptions and stereotypes there are.


The majority of men have good intentions, but peer pressure, unhealthy gender roles, fragile ego, and the quest to appear masculine in an unhealthy way have distorted these intentions.

Gents’ Ways has focus on the following:

  • etiquette in society, family, workplace, and social circles
  • relationship and dating
  • career and success
  • inspiration and motivation
  • chivalry
  • the elderly gentlemen

The Gentleman’s Ways aims to guide men towards becoming the best version of themselves while using their gentlemanly qualities to inspire society.

In society, we delve into the intricacies of social graces, providing insights into appropriate behaviors that not only showcase respect and consideration but also help promote deeper connections and create a lasting positive impression.

Understanding the importance of family, we offer guidance on nurturing strong bonds, raising gentlemen and women, engaging in meaningful conversations, and being a pillar of support for loved ones.

Workplace etiquettes play a significant role in shaping professional relationships and fostering a harmonious environment for Gentleman and others.

The Gentleman’s Ways provides practical tips and advice to navigate through office dynamics, ensuring professional success without compromising your values.

Additionally, we explore the art of networking, communication, and leadership skills that can elevate your career growth.

Relationships and dating can be a labyrinth of emotions and uncertainty.

With our expertise, we aim to assist Gentlemen in formulating meaningful connections, promoting healthy relationships, and gaining the confidence needed to navigate the dating world with dignity and integrity.

Success in life transcends professional achievements; it encompasses personal growth and self-motivation.

The Gentleman’s Ways is committed to being a source of inspiration and motivation, offering tools and strategies to help you unleash your full potential in different areas of life.

At the core of our website lies the importance of chivalry, a timeless virtue that adds elegance and charm to every gentleman’s demeanor.

We delve into the art of being polite, respectful, and considerate, not only towards women but to society as a whole.

We strive to revive the essence of chivalry and remind men that it is an integral part of being a true gentleman.

With years of experience after living with my dad and studying other elderly gentlemen and their ways of life, I have amassed a wealth of information and valuable tips, resources, and advice on enhancing the quality of life of elderly men.

From health and wellness to social connections and leisure activities, we will cover every area for our senior men. Join me on this journey of compassion and support for our beloved elders.


“The Gentleman’s Ways” envisions a platform that provides guidance and advice to gentlemen of all ages, helping them navigate life and society with grace and dignity.

The goal is to create a welcoming community where both young and elderly gentlemen can find inspiration and knowledge to embody the qualities of a true gentleman.

By offering curated content that balances traditional and contemporary perspectives, the platform aims to equip gentlemen to navigate modern life while staying true to their core values.

The focus is on cultivating authenticity and rejecting superficial ideals, fostering self-confidence, empathy, and respect.

The vision extends beyond individuals to impacting society as a whole, instilling purpose, guiding towards fulfilling relationships, and empowering meaningful contributions to communities.

“The Gentleman’s Ways” aims to be the ultimate resource for gentlemen seeking timeless wisdom while also adapting to the changing nature of society.

The vision is to create a vibrant community where experiences are shared, lessons are learned, and personal growth is celebrated, ultimately redefining what it means to be a gentleman and inspiring future generations with kindness, integrity, and self-improvement.


Upon taking off, this website will make do with the experience of the author and a renowned psychologist, Pious Clements who has been writing on adolescent and adult psychology for.

We have plans of assembling a team of writers and experts in their respective fields, bringing together a wealth of knowledge and experience to create content that resonates with our Gentlemen readers and others who are interested in understanding the Gentleman’s Ways.

Whether you are seeking advice on navigating a social event, understanding modern dating dynamics, or looking for inspiration to propel your personal growth, The Gentleman’s Ways is here to guide and empower you.

Join our community and embark on this journey towards becoming a refined gentleman.

Let us embrace etiquette, nurture relationships, achieve success, and aspire for greatness.

Together, we will redefine what it means to be a modern gentleman in today’s society.

Thank you for being a part of The Gentleman’s Ways family.

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